Josie Duggar, the 19th kid from that Duggar show on TLC is in the hospital. She was born a preemie back in December (only 25 weeks gestation!). They let her go home. Now she's back in the hospital because her vitals went south.
FIRST and foremost, I'm praying for the little baby. That's such a horrible thing for an infant to go through.
Now, back to my real reason for this post. Josie is the 19th kid. Her mom is 43 years old. Okay. Now. I'm all for you having kids, but you know that after 35 you have a greater risk of having a complicated pregnancy and a child with issues. We've seen older celebs pop out healthy kids, so we know this isn't always the case. But seriously, you would think that after having a shit load of kids you would think, "Okay, I'm approaching 40. This pregnancy isn't going to be like the first one". I have friends who had kids in their 20s and were having one in their 30s and whined about how it was harder. They were more tired. Their feet hurt. Their ass hurts. All that shit. So someone who is a pro like Michelle Duggar should've thought about that.
I don't think they do any thinking. I think they just screw and drop.
Screw. Get pregnant. Drop the kid. Repeat.
People on the blogs have been getting pissed at those who judge them. Okay, they pay their own bills. They're not on welfare. Good for them. But I look at how they run their baby farm.
The older kids are raising the little ones. They do some serious chores. They're home schooled, so they have no reason to leave the house. Nor do they get a break. When are the parents screwing to even make these kids? Oh yeah, the older ones are washing the clothes, putting on dinner, helping with the school work, re-tapping one of the younger kid's shoes.
As soon as the older ones are old enough, what do they do? They go off, get married so they can move the fuck out. But fuck the oldest boy now has a kid too!
And I'm sorry, but when you have a kid the same time your mama has a kid, that shit is ghetto to me.
ANYWAY...
I suppose these kids are happy. They don't know any different. They aren't encouraged to go outside the home and have a life. I think the son who got married found his wife at church. About the only place the family goes. It just burns me up when folks have kids for their other kids to raise. That's not their responsibility to raise your fucking kid!
So now we got baby Josie. As a preemie, she's going to have issue for a LONG time. Even once she's healthy. Are they going to have another kid a month from now??? Who is going to take on THAT responsibility?
I think their two oldest girls are over 18 at the moment. You know they'll be married off and popping babies of their own soon. They have 2 more older girls who can fulfill duties until the next set of girls are old enough to help hold the house down. Michelle would have had 2 or 3 more by then. That's no shade. And I say girls, because that's who you see handling most of the woman-work in the household. The boys do the stuff outside. Girls cook, clean, tend to kids.
I dunno. You can't even enjoy your kids if you have a bunch of them running around. You spend more time trying to keep things in order than you spend quality time with them.
Again, I hope the baby does better. But that is my opinion about those people.
FIRST and foremost, I'm praying for the little baby. That's such a horrible thing for an infant to go through.
Now, back to my real reason for this post. Josie is the 19th kid. Her mom is 43 years old. Okay. Now. I'm all for you having kids, but you know that after 35 you have a greater risk of having a complicated pregnancy and a child with issues. We've seen older celebs pop out healthy kids, so we know this isn't always the case. But seriously, you would think that after having a shit load of kids you would think, "Okay, I'm approaching 40. This pregnancy isn't going to be like the first one". I have friends who had kids in their 20s and were having one in their 30s and whined about how it was harder. They were more tired. Their feet hurt. Their ass hurts. All that shit. So someone who is a pro like Michelle Duggar should've thought about that.
I don't think they do any thinking. I think they just screw and drop.
Screw. Get pregnant. Drop the kid. Repeat.
People on the blogs have been getting pissed at those who judge them. Okay, they pay their own bills. They're not on welfare. Good for them. But I look at how they run their baby farm.
The older kids are raising the little ones. They do some serious chores. They're home schooled, so they have no reason to leave the house. Nor do they get a break. When are the parents screwing to even make these kids? Oh yeah, the older ones are washing the clothes, putting on dinner, helping with the school work, re-tapping one of the younger kid's shoes.
As soon as the older ones are old enough, what do they do? They go off, get married so they can move the fuck out. But fuck the oldest boy now has a kid too!
And I'm sorry, but when you have a kid the same time your mama has a kid, that shit is ghetto to me.
ANYWAY...
I suppose these kids are happy. They don't know any different. They aren't encouraged to go outside the home and have a life. I think the son who got married found his wife at church. About the only place the family goes. It just burns me up when folks have kids for their other kids to raise. That's not their responsibility to raise your fucking kid!
So now we got baby Josie. As a preemie, she's going to have issue for a LONG time. Even once she's healthy. Are they going to have another kid a month from now??? Who is going to take on THAT responsibility?
I think their two oldest girls are over 18 at the moment. You know they'll be married off and popping babies of their own soon. They have 2 more older girls who can fulfill duties until the next set of girls are old enough to help hold the house down. Michelle would have had 2 or 3 more by then. That's no shade. And I say girls, because that's who you see handling most of the woman-work in the household. The boys do the stuff outside. Girls cook, clean, tend to kids.
I dunno. You can't even enjoy your kids if you have a bunch of them running around. You spend more time trying to keep things in order than you spend quality time with them.
Again, I hope the baby does better. But that is my opinion about those people.
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